Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Life Is Too Short

It has taken me a long time to learn this lesson. I don’t hold grudges but I have finally freed myself from those that do.

The time has come to let go of what I can’t change…



Ronda said...

It's like getting this huge weight lifted off your chest isn't it?!? I was once told that when you have constant negativity surrounding you, it starts to wear you down.
It was like having the life constantly sucked out of you whenever being around them. Free at last and no regrets! :-)

Merikay said...

A good reminder.

JO said...

Yes it's true. I had to give up on family for this very reason. And life IS just to short.

Anonymous said...

You know don't you that your brother and his wife have gotten their church members to pay for their bills and their house? Don't you have something to say about that? They're using people for their own gain and some of us have gotten sick of it!

Erik's RV Blog said...

Merikay - Agreed.

JO - Yep, agreed 100%

Anonymous - I don't speak to them so I don't know who they get to pay their bills. If you have an issue with how they get funds you really need to take it up with them, they don't talk to me.

I don't go to their blog, their facebook pages or any other website they post to so I have no clue what's going on with them.

Ronda said...

Anonymous...they are no longer a part of our lives and we wish to keep it that way. I have finally let go of my hatred and have no ill will toward them. We just want to live our lives and let them live theirs. We have no interest in what is going on with them, so please...if you have a problem with them, talk to them...not us.

Erik's RV Blog said...

Ronda and Anonymous - I don't personally want them out of our lives, rules were put in place to be part of their lives.

I don't have rules for family to abide by. Since my brother is incapable of seeing anything he does or says as wrong and always has somebody to blame I have decided to leave them be and let go.

Since this was all set in motion by his mandate this is in his control. So, having said more than I wanted to because I think I know who you are go to his blog or bring it up with him the next time you see him.

This is the last thing I'll be saying about them here in the comments and on the blog.